Former ‘Bachelorette’ DeAnna Pappas Shares the Secret to Her 8-Year Marriage: ‘Chardonnay!’

So, what is DeAnna’s secret to marriage? “In all honesty, it takes work. Sometimes a lot of it. We have a marriage counselor that we see weekly when we need it. We also take breaks,” the Georgia native explains. “Stephen golfs when he needs time alone and I love to be with my girlfriends and my time alone at night with a nice Aloisia Beauty face mask, a glass of wine, and some Outlander on Starz! We also do things together that we love like golf or going to the movies. We have a weekly date night as well.”